就是以下的这些...谢谢大家啦！！
《孟子》里的“天时不如地利，地利不如人和”我们早已熟诵，《史记》中的“将相和”故事我们也是耳熟能详。知道“和为贵”的道理，我们又是真的知道怎么去做吗？是不是只要大家“井水不犯河水”，“你走你的阳关道，我走我的独木桥”，到最后“各人自扫门前雪，休管他人瓦上霜”就行了？听说喝咖啡时所加入的咖啡伴侣其颜色为鲜白，可是一旦倒入咖啡之中搅拌充分，就只见咖啡不见伴侣了。然而，这咖啡的味道却改变了，不会像之前那么苦涩，却多了一丝香甜与润滑。
正如咖啡伴侣一样，为了与咖啡的相融，它甘愿舍弃自己原本鲜明的颜色。为了我们心中所向往的和谐，我们有时也需要作出改变。
在那个著名的“将相和”故事中，如果没有蔺相如的宽大忍让，没有廉颇甘愿以大将军之身负荆请罪，就不会有日后的将相同心、各展所长的千古美谈。同样是共是一国，古往今来，从宋朝的秦桧陷害忠良到近代国民革命时期的“府院之争”，多少人为了名利打拼个你死我活，面对外敌入侵和人民百姓的水深火热毫不动容，不懂相让不懂“和”，影响的又何止一事一人。
又想起一个游戏，有一株白菜，一只吃菜的羊，一只吃羊的狼，一个人和一条只能乘载一人加一物的船，怎样把东西全部带到对岸，答案挺费心思，但其实说穿了，也就是只要这个人辛苦一点，多跑几趟就行了。有时，我们要求得“和谐”是很难的，因为人与人身上都有棱角，不免磕磕碰碰。但只要我们有为“和”辛苦的思想，相互理解，将心比心，彼此忍让宽容，和谐的局面就会到来。
有人说，两个人之间的相处合作不是“1+1=2”，而是“0.5+0.5=1”。在和谐的环境中，我们可以相互合作事半功倍，我们可以相互支持共渡难关，只是需要将自己减去一点，为甜辛苦。
第1个回答 2008-03-21
"Mencius" in “the weather is inferior to benefit, the advantage was inferior that the human and” we already ripe reads aloud, "Shihchi" “the military and political leader and” the story we are also familiar-sounding can detailed. Knew “and for expensive” the truth, we are also really knew how to do? Is so long as everybody “the well water does not violate the river water”, “you walk your broad highway, I walk my single-plank bridge”, “before sweeping the gate finally to various people the snow, rested on the tube other people tile the frost” to be good? Coffee whitener its color which hears drink when coffee joins to fresh white, but once pours into the coffee to stir fully, saw only the coffee not to see the companion. However, this coffee's flavor actually changed, before not the elephant, will be so bitter and astringent, actually many fragrant and lubrication.
Just like the coffee whitener is the same, for melts with the coffee, it is willing to discard the originally bright color. For in our heart yearned for sometimes the harmony, we also need to make the change.
In that famous “military and political leader and” in story, if does not have Lin Xiangru's spacious exercising forbearance, does not have Lian Po to be willing body of by the imperator to carry a rod and ask for punishment, will not have in the future military and political leader concentric, to unfold manager's eternity edifying anecdote respectively. Similarly is altogether is a country, through the ages, frames loyally from Song Dynasty's Qin Gui revolutionizes good to the modern national the time “struggle of the government office courtyard”, how many people fight for life and death for the fame and fortune, does not change countenance facing the foreign enemy invasion and the people's common people's abyss of suffering, does not understand cannot yield mutually “and”, affects incident one person.
Also remembers a game, some cabbage, eats the vegetable the sheep, eats the sheep the wolf, a person and can only ride carry one person to add a ship, how to arrive at the thing complete belt the opposite shore, the answer very takes a lot of care, but has exposed actually, is also so long as this person laborious spot, ran several is good. Sometimes, we must obtain “harmoniously” are very difficult, because the person and on the person body has the edges and corners, unavoidably clash. But so long as we are promising “and” the laborious thought that understands mutually, feels for others, each other will exercise forbearance tolerantly, the harmonious aspect will arrive.
Some people said that between two people are together the cooperation is not “1+1=2”, but is “0.5+0.5=1”. In the harmonious environment, we may cooperate mutually twice the result with half the effort, we may support mutually altogether tide over the difficulty, only will be the need will subtract a spot, for sweet laborious.
Just like the coffee whitener is the same, for melts with the coffee, it is willing to discard the originally bright color. For in our heart yearned for sometimes the harmony, we also need to make the change.
In that famous “military and political leader and” in story, if does not have Lin Xiangru's spacious exercising forbearance, does not have Lian Po to be willing body of by the imperator to carry a rod and ask for punishment, will not have in the future military and political leader concentric, to unfold manager's eternity edifying anecdote respectively. Similarly is altogether is a country, through the ages, frames loyally from Song Dynasty's Qin Gui revolutionizes good to the modern national the time “struggle of the government office courtyard”, how many people fight for life and death for the fame and fortune, does not change countenance facing the foreign enemy invasion and the people's common people's abyss of suffering, does not understand cannot yield mutually “and”, affects incident one person.
Also remembers a game, some cabbage, eats the vegetable the sheep, eats the sheep the wolf, a person and can only ride carry one person to add a ship, how to arrive at the thing complete belt the opposite shore, the answer very takes a lot of care, but has exposed actually, is also so long as this person laborious spot, ran several is good. Sometimes, we must obtain “harmoniously” are very difficult, because the person and on the person body has the edges and corners, unavoidably clash. But so long as we are promising “and” the laborious thought that understands mutually, feels for others, each other will exercise forbearance tolerantly, the harmonious aspect will arrive.
Some people said that between two people are together the cooperation is not “1+1=2”, but is “0.5+0.5=1”. In the harmonious environment, we may cooperate mutually twice the result with half the effort, we may support mutually altogether tide over the difficulty, only will be the need will subtract a spot, for sweet laborious.
第2个回答 2008-03-21
《 Menzi 》 " weather not equal to land utilization, land utilization not equal to person and" of mile we are already familiar to cantillate, 《 historical records 》 medium" will mutually and" story we are also ears familiar can know well.Know the truth of" and is expensive", do we really know how to do again?Is as long as everyone" the well water does not make the river water"," you walk your sun pass way, I walk I only wooden bridge", till the last did" everyone from sweep an ex- snow, rest to take care of the others tile up frost" go?Hear to drink the coffee join of coffee companion its color is a fresh white, but once pour into the coffee to mix blend well, saw the coffee disappear the companion only.However, but the flavor of this coffee changed, will not be like before and so bitter and astringent, but had another one silk sweet with lubricate.
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
Someone say that two persons' gets along with the cooperation is not"1= of 1+2", but"0.5= of 0.5+1".In harmonious environment, we can cooperate the half effort and double results mutually, we can support experiencing together the difficult pass mutually, just needing to subtract oneself 1:00, is a sweet pain.本回答被提问者采纳
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
Someone say that two persons' gets along with the cooperation is not"1= of 1+2", but"0.5= of 0.5+1".In harmonious environment, we can cooperate the half effort and double results mutually, we can support experiencing together the difficult pass mutually, just needing to subtract oneself 1:00, is a sweet pain.本回答被提问者采纳
第3个回答 2008-03-27
《 Menzi 》 " weather not equal to land utilization, land utilization not equal to person and" of mile we are already familiar to cantillate, 《 historical records 》 medium" will mutually and" story we are also ears familiar can know well.Know the truth we really know how to do again?Is as long as everyone" the well water does not make the river water"," you walk your sun pass way, I walk I only woodn bridge", till the last did" everyone from sweep an ex- snow, rest to take care of the others tile up frost" go?Hear to drink the coffee join of coffee companion its color is a fresh white, but once pour into the coffee to mix blend well, saw the coffee disappear the companion only.However, but the flavor of this coffee changed, will not be like before and so bitter and astringent, but had another one silk sweet with lubricate.
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
Someone say that two persons' gets along with the cooperation is not"1= of 1+2", but"0.5= of 0.5+1".In harmonious environment, we can cooperate the half effort and double results mutually, we can support experiencing together the difficultpass mutually, just needing to subtract oneself 1:00, is a sweet pain.
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
Someone say that two persons' gets along with the cooperation is not"1= of 1+2", but"0.5= of 0.5+1".In harmonious environment, we can cooperate the half effort and double results mutually, we can support experiencing together the difficultpass mutually, just needing to subtract oneself 1:00, is a sweet pain.
第4个回答 2008-03-31
Menzi 》 " weather not equal to land utilization, land utilization not equal to person and" of mile we are already familiar to cantillate, 《 historical records 》 medium" will mutually and" story we are also ears familiar can know well.Know the truth of" and is expensive", do we really know how to do again?Is as long as everyone" the well water does not make the river water"," you walk your sun pass way, I walk I only wooden bridge", till the last did" everyone from sweep an ex- snow, rest to take care of the others tile up frost" go?Hear to drink the coffee join of coffee companion its color is a fresh white, but once pour into the coffee to mix blend well, saw the coffee disappear the companion only.However, but the flavor of this coffee changed, will not be like before and so bitter and astringent, but had another one silk sweet with lubricate.
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
Positive is similar such as the coffee companion, for melting with coffee mutually, it abandons the oneself willing original fresh and clear color.For the sake of our heart in look forward to of diapason, we sometimes also need to make a change.
In that" will mutually and" story, if have no 蔺 mutually such as of liberality endure to let, have no 廉 to rather apologize for wrong doing with the body of the great commander soldier willing, will not have in the days to come of historic instructive anecdote of the same heart, each exhibition bureau chief.Is one country similarly and totally, all ages, good and faithful go to period" the mansion hospital contend for" of modern citizen's revolution from QIN2 KUAI4's frame-up of the Sung Dynasty, how much artificial the fame and wealth work hard a you die I live, facing the foreign enemy to invade and people's common people of water and scorching fire change countenance nowise, don't understand mutually not understand" and", the influence is again a matter one person.
Remind of a game again, there is one stub cabbage, on eating the sheep of the vegetables only, on eating the wolf of the sheep only, a person and a can multiply by to carry one person to add one ship of the thing only, how take all of the thing to the opposite shore, the answer gives a lot of care to think pretty, but revealed in fact, also is only a little bit pain of this person, ran several more to go.Sometimes, we request" harmonious" is very difficult, because person and there is all sharp angle on the Human body, unavoidably the 磕磕 touch.But as long as we are capable" and" the thought of the pain, comprehend mutually, compare heart heart, endure to let tolerate each other, harmonious situation meeting arrival.
