However, today westerners will send cards ,flowers ,and chocolates to their loved ones to show their love on14th February, In old Rome the young man were separated from the young girls , only when 14th February ,the young men could carve the name of the girls they like on the flower vase. When they celebrating the festival, they could chase the girl to dance, if the girl also thinks the boy good, they could be lovers and get married in future day’s .in old Europe, during the Valentine’s Day, the young girls, names were written and put in the box. For the young man to pick up .the picked girl will be the man’s lover. The girl’s name will be embroidered on the man’s cloth which means it’s his obligation to protect and look after this girl.
3.2.3. Different Ways of Thinking
From the different ways of celebrating, it could be find that these two festivals, focus on different things. Valentine’s Day was mainly celebrated by people who loved each other or those Christy. in nowadays, it is mostly related to love especially in china while double seventh day it was mainly celebrated by women who prey themselves a good husband and skilled handcrafting while its love meaning was just because of the story of the Niulang and Zhinv which was focused in recent years when people spend valentine’s day and they thought that may be we should have double seventh day the same meaning and spend our own traditional festivals, but not festivals from west.
Besides , according to all the comparisons above , a clear difference came out , that is the way of Chinese thinking .As young girls hope for a good husband ,the westerns express their love and like to the one they love .this is the different when Chinese girls they know they what to love and have someone to love and love them , but they are just wait for the right man to appear by himself ,while the westerns they write their blessing and express their love in a letter and even give girl to the one they like directly. Westerns were direct, and open-minded while Chinese the show their feelings or love in a low key and conservative way. The girls in ancient time, they had no chance to meet more man in their life. If they like someone, they could not tell him, or they could be thought back. So they prefer to prey to tree and the sky and the silver river to make their dream come true, rather than to chase their happy future but themselves, which was not agreed by west culture.
Although the festivals are both celebrated by lovers in recent years, however the traditions and the word view that showed in these two days by the Chinese and the westerns are totally different. Westerns send their loved ones the roses and chocolates to tell them loudly that how much they love them. Nevertheless, in china’s double-seventh day, people show some feelings very implicitly. The westerns are full of passion and hot but Chinese are kind and implicitly.
第3.2.3章。 不同的思维方式
从不同的方式庆祝,它就会被发现,这两个节日,把注意力放在不同的事情。情人节主要是庆祝的人互相爱慕或那些Christy.在现今的,大多是有关“爱”特别是在中国当双七日它主要猎物自己庆祝的妇女handcrafting一个好丈夫和熟练的时候它的意思只是因为爱的故事,这是Niulang集中Zhinv近年来当人们度过情人节呢,他们认为可能是我们应该有双七日同样的意思,花我们自己的传统节日,而不是从西方节日。
此外,根据以上所有的比较,明确区别出来,那是中国的思维方式对已知的年轻女孩希望一个好丈夫,表达他们的爱,喜欢西部片的爱。这里是不同的,当中国的女孩,他们知道他们什么去爱,有人去爱,去爱他们,但他们仅仅是等待那个对的人出现,而西部电影里看到的自己写自己的祝福,他们表达他们的爱的是字母,甚至会给女孩来到了一个他们喜欢直接。西部片是