不要骗我,机器翻的不给分!!
比较思路
中国家长更多地是对孩子进行横向比较，即把自家的孩子跟别人家的孩子进行比较，甚至用别人家孩子的优势比自己孩子的劣势和不足。这可促使孩子虚心向别人学习，但也容易伤害孩子的自尊和自信。我们家长不妨学学西方家长的做法，使用纵向比较：把孩子的今天与昨天相比较，看到取了哪些进步，做出了哪些成绩，让孩子在鼓励中依靠自身的积极因素不断前进。相对来说，西方家长运用鼓励、表扬多于批评、惩罚；中国家长则常常突出批评的作用，光盯着孩子的缺点和错误数落个没完，甚至有些家长动不动就打骂、训斥孩子，认为“反正是为孩子好，体罚有何不可？”其实，这种做法很容易挫伤孩子的上进心，并使孩子形成对立情绪及逆反心理。所以，学学西方的那种常识、激励教育是有必要的。
Comparative Thought
Chinese parents intend to compare their children in a horizontal way, in other words, they like comparing their children with others’. Some parents even compare their children’s demerits with others’ merits. As a result, children can be motivated to learn modestly from others while they can be frustrated in terms of their self-esteem and confidence.
Parents may learn to compare their children in a vertical way like what the parents in western countries do: to compare their children today’s performance with yesterdays’ to see what progress children have made. Thus, filling with the encouragement from parents, children can move forward with their own positive factors. Relatively, western parents encourage and compliment their children more than they criticize and punish them, whereas Chinese parents often criticize their children by focusing on children’s’ demerits. Some of the Chinese parents even beat and scold their children believing that physical punishment can benefit children more. In fact, not only can children be frustrated easily, but also have converse feeling toward what they are told. In summary, it is necessary for Chinese parents to learn from western parents to educate children with encouragement and inspiration.
Chinese parents intend to compare their children in a horizontal way, in other words, they like comparing their children with others’. Some parents even compare their children’s demerits with others’ merits. As a result, children can be motivated to learn modestly from others while they can be frustrated in terms of their self-esteem and confidence.
Parents may learn to compare their children in a vertical way like what the parents in western countries do: to compare their children today’s performance with yesterdays’ to see what progress children have made. Thus, filling with the encouragement from parents, children can move forward with their own positive factors. Relatively, western parents encourage and compliment their children more than they criticize and punish them, whereas Chinese parents often criticize their children by focusing on children’s’ demerits. Some of the Chinese parents even beat and scold their children believing that physical punishment can benefit children more. In fact, not only can children be frustrated easily, but also have converse feeling toward what they are told. In summary, it is necessary for Chinese parents to learn from western parents to educate children with encouragement and inspiration.
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第1个回答 2007-04-28
分数太少了，不高兴
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第2个回答 2007-04-28
In china,most parents compare their children with other people's. Moreover,they often use the advantages of other people's children that compares the shortcoming of their children. Although this teaching mode will promote the children study harder, it is easy to hurt children's pride and self-confidence. So we could learn the teaching method about western parents. Western parents often attention on children's progress of today, and the children will depend on their ability to acquire better achievement that have been encouraged by their parents. Obviously, the western parents often encourage and prise their children, but the most chinese parents usually just attention on children's shortcoming and mistakes, furthermore, they will beat their children when they think the children make something wrong.However, this teaching method not only will damage children's enterprise, but also it will promote the children come into being oppose emotion and rebelled mentality.Therefore, the chinese parents should to learn the western teaching method and encourage education.
这段话写得真的有些别扭，因此翻译起来很费力，我只能翻到这个程度了，你自己看一下是否可以用吧。
这段话写得真的有些别扭，因此翻译起来很费力，我只能翻到这个程度了，你自己看一下是否可以用吧。
