e are so inclined to think of both American culture &Chinese culture as much alike. In fact, their difference outweigh their similarities in our daily life.
For example, partings for the Chinese involve a certain amount of ritual and a great deal of one-upmanship. The Chinese feel they must see a guest off to the farthest feasible point--down flight of stairs to the street below or perhaps all the way to the nearest bus stop. Any protests are to no avail, through you had said "Don't bother to see me off" ritual at every landing. If you try to go fast to discourage the hosts from following, they are simply put to the discomfort of having to flee after you. Better to accept the inevitable. On the contrary, for American people, they just said "goodbye" and go back to do other work. Another difference is what do you say when you part from someone? "Go slowly." Not farewell or Godspeed, but "go slowly". To the Chinese it means "Take care" or "Watch your step." Or some such caution, but translated literally it means "Go slow."
American and Chinese culture in the responses for a hostess are at polar opposites. An American hostess, complimented for her culinary skills, is likely to say, "Oh, I'm so glad you liked it, I cooked it especially for you." Not so a Chinese host or hostess(often the husband does the fancy cooking), who will instead apologize profusely for give you "nothing" even slightly edible honor by providing proper dishes.
The same rules hold true with regard to children. American parents speak proudly of their children's accomplishments, telling how Johnny made the school team or Jane made the honor well. Not so Chinese parents, whose children ,even if at the top of their class in school, are always so "naughty", never studying ,never listening to their elders, and so forth.
The last and also the most distinctive difference between American culture and Chinese culture is the Chinese take pride in "modesty"; the Americans in "straight forwardness". That modesty has left many a Chinese hungry at an American table, for Chinese politeness calls for three refusals before one accepts an offer, and the American hosts take a "no"
举例来说， partings ，为中国涉及一定数额的仪式和大量的1 - upmanship 。中国人觉得他们必须看到一个客户到最远可行的网络点-向下飞行楼梯街下面，或者所有的方式到就近的巴士站。任何抗议都没有用，通过你曾说过： “不要理会见我，富而思进”的仪式在每一个登陆。如果您尝试去快速劝阻主机从以下，他们只是向不适，不得不逃离后，你。更好地接受不可避免的。与此相反，为美国人民，他们只是说“再见” ，回去做其他工作。另一个差别是你怎么说，当您的一部分，从某人？ “慢慢来” 。不是告别或godspeed ，但“慢慢来” 。向中国意思是“照顾”或“欣赏你的步骤” 。或一些这样的谨慎，但翻译字面上意思是“慢” 。
美国和中国文化在回应一个主持人是在极地的对立统一。美国主持人， complimented为她烹饪技巧，很可能会说： “哦，我很高兴你喜欢它，我熟的，它特别为您的” 。并非如此，中国的主机或主持人（通常是丈夫不喜欢烹饪） ，谁不是道歉， profusely为给你“无关” ，甚至略有食用荣誉，提供适当的菜肴。
同样的规则进行真正的儿童方面。美国家长发言自豪其子女的成绩，告诉如何约翰尼作出了校队，或简取得的荣誉。并非如此，中国的父母，其子女，即使在最上方的班级在学校，总是如此“顽皮” ，从来没有学习，从来没有听他们的长辈，等等。
最后，也是最鲜明的区别美国文化与中国文化是中国引以自豪的“谦虚” ;美国人在“直forwardness ” 。谦虚的表示，已经留下了许多中国人饿了在美国表，为中国的礼貌要求3拒绝前一接受要约，以及东道主美国采取“不”
"A
Dream
of
Red
Mansions"
high
ideological
content,
content-rich,
profound
implication.
Which
are
mainly
through
the
characters
to
portray
the
image
displayed.
Xue
are
important,
her
marriage
tragedy
and
Tai-yu's
love
tragedy
is
"A
Dream
of
Red
Mansions,"
the
plot
of
the
main
line,
are
the
soul
works.
She
has
downtime
of
ethics,
such
as
yin孟母.
In
her
focus
on
the
lot
of
the
traditional
virtues
of
Chinese
women,
but
also
in
personality
on
her
gentle,
quiet
and
under
Sincerely
ceremony,
looks
on
par
with
Lin.
Characters
of
this
analysis,
both
from
her
attitude
towards
their
elders,
deal
with
the
attitude
of
peers,
such
as
treatment
of
people
under
the
attitude
to
carry
out,
at
the
same
time,
an
analysis
of
her
advise
on
how
others
in
accordance
with
the
moral
standards
of
her
heart
to
do
more
to
From
"金玉良in-law"
and
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stone
former
UNITA"
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of
view
not
as
indecent
assault,
indecent
assault
not
to
listen,
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indecent
image
of
the
feudal
ladies,
and
this
is
not
difficult
to
see
she
was
too
enthusiastic
about
"career
economy",
too
about
"the
woman
is
not
only
Germany."
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and
the
"rock"
Jia
marriages
are
inevitable
tragedy.
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the
author
of
"A
Dream
of
Red
Mansions"
wrote
"Alas
downtime
Tak",
"金簪snow里埋."
Key
words:金簪Xue
Xue里埋downtime
Zhide
career
keen
economic
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