When couples disagree about money, trouble soon follows.
Experts find that money is one of the main topics that cause people to quarrel. Consider these discussion-starting questions:
1‘Do you have the same money arguments over and over? If so, chances are there’s more to the conflict than meets the eye. For example, behind Terry’s worries about money was her deep fear that she couldn’t trust Charlie to be there for her and her children. Determine the real issue in your marriage, and solve it directly.
2 Is a change in lifestyle causing your quarrels? Money conflicts are often connected to changes in life such as the birth of a baby, a job shift, a raise, a wife’ s losing work, or the start of college tuition payments. Even positive life events may require financial readjustments. Try to forecast these events and keep a step or two ahead of them. Ask yourselves: How will we change our lifestyle abhor the baby is Nom? When my raise comes through, does it make sense to buy a house?
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