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我也有过很彷徨的时刻，当然不是刚刚离开大学校园的那些年，而是在事业上稍稍有点成就的时候，看到后来者快速地超过自己，会对自己产生焦虑，不要说幸福，连快乐都变少了很多，因为心里面总是有很多的抱怨和不满。还好，这样的状态持续的时间并不长，很快我就明白了这样一个道理，其实幸福的感觉来自自己，而不是别人。除了不要和别人比较，还有就是对自己要有非常准确的判断，不要给自己太大的压力。
很多人觉得不幸福，是因为觉得眼前的生活和自己的期待相差太远。我不是说不应该有一种人生的目标或者预期，但是以我自己的经验，如果把幸福建筑在未来的话，幸福会变得和自己无缘。因为人的目标是会不断变化的，在达到了一个目标之后，其实很少人会觉得满足，会继续设定新的目标。而如果这个时候，无法让自己停下来享受目标实现的那个过程，幸福会和自己擦肩而过。
There are moments when I've felt hesitant, of course it's not the first few years just after leaving University, but rather when I've made little accompolishments in my career. Seeing those newcomers overtake me so soon made me feel anxious about myself. Because the inside my heart is always full of complaints and dissatisfaction, my enjoyment, not to mention happiness, has decreased significantly. Fortunately, this state of mind didn't not continue for long, soon after I understood that, actually, the feeling of happiness comes from within and not from others. Apart from comparing with other people, I should also have a very accurate judgement of myself, so I don't give myself an unbearable amount of pressure.
Many people feel uncontent, mostly because they feel that their current life is too far away from their expectations. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't have some sort of goal or expectation in life, but according to my experiences, if the structure of happiness was built on the future, happiness will be miles apart from you. The reason being that as people's targets continuously change, few will feel satisfied after achieving a goal and they will resume setting new ones. Yet if you cannot stop youself to enjoy the process of achieving a target, happiness will simply brush past you.
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Many people feel uncontent, mostly because they feel that their current life is too far away from their expectations. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't have some sort of goal or expectation in life, but according to my experiences, if the structure of happiness was built on the future, happiness will be miles apart from you. The reason being that as people's targets continuously change, few will feel satisfied after achieving a goal and they will resume setting new ones. Yet if you cannot stop youself to enjoy the process of achieving a target, happiness will simply brush past you.
楼主这些都是我本人翻译的！希望你满意~~~
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第1个回答 2014-01-03
I also had a very anxious time , of course, those years are not just left the university campus , but a little bit on the career achievements , I saw newcomers quickly than their own , will own anxiety , not to mention happiness, even joy have many fewer , because there is always a lot of heart complaints and dissatisfaction. Fortunately, such a state duration is not long, I soon realized that such a reason , in fact, the feeling of happiness comes from yourself, not others. Do not compare with others in addition , there is on their own to have a very accurate judgment , do not give yourself too much pressure .
Many people do not feel happy , because I think the immediate lives and their expectations too far behind. I'm not saying there should be a life goal , or expected , but in my own experience , if the building happiness in the future , it will become and their own well-being missed . Because people 's goal is to be constantly changing , after reaching a goal , in fact, very few people will feel satisfied, will continue to set new goals. And if this time , could not bring himself to stop and enjoy the process to achieve the objective , and their own happiness will pass .
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Many people do not feel happy , because I think the immediate lives and their expectations too far behind. I'm not saying there should be a life goal , or expected , but in my own experience , if the building happiness in the future , it will become and their own well-being missed . Because people 's goal is to be constantly changing , after reaching a goal , in fact, very few people will feel satisfied, will continue to set new goals. And if this time , could not bring himself to stop and enjoy the process to achieve the objective , and their own happiness will pass .
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第2个回答 2014-01-03
I do hesitate at times, not those time when i just left university, but when i had some achievment done in my career. I'll be anxious when i look at those people that overtakes me. Not to mention about happiness, even the joy was getting lesser. Because complains and dissatisfaction was deep inside my heart. Luckily, this state of mine does not last for long. I soon realize that the feeling of happiness came from myself, and not the others. Other than comparing with people, we need to have accuracy in making decision. Don't stress ourself too much.
Many people felt that themselves were unblessed, because their livings are so much different from what they have aspected to be. I'm not saying not to have a target or expectation. From what i've gone through, if we have to build our happiness on future, we will not be able to touch the tip of happiness. The reason is that our targets will always change after we achieved it. Nobody will ever feel satisfied, and they will continue to set new target. If you couldn't make yourself stop to enjoy the process, you will miss the happiness.
抱歉啊 翻译的不是很标准 毕竟咱们不是专业搞这个的。
I hope this will help you in somewhere, somehow.~~
Many people felt that themselves were unblessed, because their livings are so much different from what they have aspected to be. I'm not saying not to have a target or expectation. From what i've gone through, if we have to build our happiness on future, we will not be able to touch the tip of happiness. The reason is that our targets will always change after we achieved it. Nobody will ever feel satisfied, and they will continue to set new target. If you couldn't make yourself stop to enjoy the process, you will miss the happiness.
抱歉啊 翻译的不是很标准 毕竟咱们不是专业搞这个的。
I hope this will help you in somewhere, somehow.~~
