婚姻不是爱情的坟墓，那是我们原本为爱情安的家，没有家的爱情不会在两个相同的人之间持续太久，需要中途换人才能保持一直在恋爱的感觉。而有了家的爱情却能够以一种走进了生命里的姿势得到永远，这种姿势可以用亲情来形容，但又不完全等同于有血缘关系的亲情，这里依旧有爱情的积蓄，不然两个原本没有血缘的男女间，也就不可能形成如亲人般坚韧的关系。当然，如果你非要把婚姻过成了坟墓我也没办法。不要以爱情里的心态去高估婚姻，也不要以婚姻里的鸡毛蒜皮去悲哀爱情。爱情，可以一直活在我们的精神世界里，把心醉成了一杯酒。而婚姻，是在最现实的世俗生活里平淡相守，把两个人熬成了一锅粥。会是相同的两个人，却是不同的两件事，如果能合二为一，本身就已是把握住了机会的幸福。
Marriage is not the tomb of love, it is safe for the love we had home, no family love is not the same between the two last long, with intermediate substitutions in order to maintain the feeling has always been in love.
And a home of love is to enter a life in a position be forever, this position can be used to describe the family, but not exactly the same as blood in the family, there is still a love of savings, or Two had no blood ties between men and women, it is impossible to form relationships, such as family-like tenacity.
Of course, if you want the marriage had become a grave non-I have no alternative. Do not over-love, attitude to marriage, nor marriage in the trivial to the tragic love. Love, you can always live in our spiritual world, the enchanted into a glass of wine.
The marriage is the most realistic flat spend the secular life, the two men boiled the gruel. Will be the same two people, but it is two different things, if combined, is already seized the opportunity to own well-being
And a home of love is to enter a life in a position be forever, this position can be used to describe the family, but not exactly the same as blood in the family, there is still a love of savings, or Two had no blood ties between men and women, it is impossible to form relationships, such as family-like tenacity.
Of course, if you want the marriage had become a grave non-I have no alternative. Do not over-love, attitude to marriage, nor marriage in the trivial to the tragic love. Love, you can always live in our spiritual world, the enchanted into a glass of wine.
The marriage is the most realistic flat spend the secular life, the two men boiled the gruel. Will be the same two people, but it is two different things, if combined, is already seized the opportunity to own well-being
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第1个回答 2010-10-17
marriage, where is the house we built for love.is not the tomb of love. the love without a house will not last too long between to persons. we need to change the partners to keep the feeling of love in the midway while the love with a house can last forever in a living body which can be described as family but not the same as blood tie. the love also can be developed or a man and a woman without blood relation cannot form the stronge relations just like kins. of course , i can not say anything if you have to treat the marriage as the tomb of love. never overestimate marriage in the emotion of love and never make the love sad by the trivials in the marriage. love ,can live in our spiritual world forever and makes our heart lost just like we get drunk while marriage is holding on tegether unromaticly in the most realistic secular life and making two individuals into a pot of congee. They will be 2 same persons ,but love and marriage will be 2 different things. if they can become one,they themselves get the happiness of seizing the opportunities..
第2个回答 2010-10-18
Marriage is not a love of the grave, that is our original home of Ontario for love, not family love will not be the same in the two last long between people, you need to change horses can keep always the feeling of love. The House of love to be able to take a walk into the life of the posture is forever, this gesture can be described with affection, but not entirely equivalent to a blood relationship family ties here still have love for savings, otherwise the two originally no blood of men and women, cannot be formed as loved ones like tough relationship. Of course, if you really want to have the marriage has become a grave I. Do not love mentality to overestimation of marriage, nor to marriage of trivial to sad love. Love, you can always live in our spirit world, the enchanted into a glass of wine. But marriage is the most realistic secular life dull together, the two men into an absolute mess. Will be the same two people, but it is different for two things, if one is, in itself, have seize a chance for happiness
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第3个回答 2010-10-18
The marriage is not love grave, that is we originally for the love peaceful family, will not have family's love not to continue between two same people to be too long, needs the midway substitution of players to be able to maintain continuously at the love feeling. But had family's love actually to be able to enter in the life posture by one kind to obtain forever, this kind of posture might use the dear ones to describe, but equated not completely in has the blood relationship dear ones, here had love savings as before, otherwise two original manuscripts did not have between the blood relationship men and women, was also impossible to form like the family member tenacious relations. Certainly, if you must become the marriage the grave I also not to have the means. Do not overestimate the marriage by love in point of view, also do not go to the sorrowful love by the marital in goose bumps. Love, may live in ours inner world, has become glass of liquor elated. But the marriage, is light defends in the most r
第4个回答 2010-10-18
Marriage is the grave of love, for love is that we had the house, without love is not in the same people both between last long, need to change horses in midstream to remain in the feeling of love. The house was able to love a entered in life, this kind of posture pose have always can be used to describe affection, but not completely equal to have ties to affection, love is still here, otherwise the savings of two originally not blood between men and women, and will not be loved as a form of tough. Of course, if you want to have the marriage became the grave I didn't also the way. Don't make love mentality to overestimate marriage, also do not take marriage to mourn the trifles. Love, we can always live in the spirit world, put into a glass of wine drunk. But the marriage is the most realistic, in the worldly life together, the two flat has messed up personally. Can be the same, but the two different things, if can close 2 for one, has itself is a grasp opportunity of happiness.
I wish you happiness and joy!
I wish you happiness and joy!
第5个回答 2010-10-18
Marriage is the grave of love, for love is that we had the house, without love is not in the same people both between last long, need to change horses in midstream to remain in the feeling of love. The house was able to love a entered in life, this kind of posture pose have always can be used to describe affection, but not completely equal to have ties to affection, love is still here, otherwise the savings of two originally not blood between men and women, and will not be loved as a form of tough. Of course, if you want to have the marriage became the grave I didn't also the way. Don't make love mentality to overestimate marriage, also do not take marriage to mourn the trifles. Love, we can always live in the spirit world, put into a glass of wine drunk. But the marriage is the most realistic, in the worldly life together, the two flat has messed up personally. Can be the same, but the two different things, if can close 2 for one, has itself is a grasp opportunity of happiness。
Hope my answer can help you wish your family happiness!
Hope my answer can help you wish your family happiness!
